Jab Bhi Tu Milta Hai
Tujhme Kuch Naya Sa Milta Hai Mujhe
Aei Dost Tu Mujhe Meri Tarah Hi Dikhta Hai
Jab Bhi Tu Milta Hai
Har Subah Ke Sath Mere Wo Muskurata Hua Chehra
Yeh Teri Duaka Asar Rang Lata Hai
Jab Bhi Tu Milta Hai
~ Kiran K Singh

Friends, friendship or friendship day'what's more important?

1. Friends. It means you are more concern about the counter-operation than co-operation. Gita says, love but don't get addicted either to love or the lover. Here, you're addicted.

2. Friendship. Here, you enjoy the process bcoz you're not driven by the outcomes. You value it not bcoz your friend has a Shahrukh kinda smile, Ritwik kinda dancing skill or Salman kinda waxed figure or Abishekh kinda surname or Ambani kinda bank balance. Here, you value your friends bcoz you value friendship. It's your instinct that drives you, not the reasons. You celebrate it bcoz you value the celebration.

3. Friendship day. Why do you need reasons to celebrate? Yes, why limit your celebration only for 24 hours, whereas you can celebrate it anytime you want.

Every second is a moment. And every moment can be celebrated. What's wrong, if you don't limit the celebration within a day!

On my last trip to Kolkata, I met a linguistic historian. As usual like all other historians, he was busy telling what he knew and surprisingly, he succeeded. Because he was telling about folk music and I never minded to be a listener here. Then, he shared this 700 year old folk song and swept me over in a minute. Though, he couldn't remember the tune but I didn't forget to remember the opportunity to record the conversation. Here're the awesome lines:

Synopsis: Maa Yashoda was going to the river and the little Krishna was following. Yashoda said: 'No, don't come! There is haung (a term to frighten children).' Krishna replied: 'Mother, I have created all. Tell me, who has created this haung? I'd go with you, show me the haung.'

Beyonce Knowledge competed as part of girls group, Girls Aloud, on Star Search but lost to her cousin Kelly Rowland.


Forget about her influence on being the sailor of the best-selling girls group of all time, or winning 5 Grammy in a single night for her debut solo-album, Beyonce is the first and only female artist to have a number-one album and a number one single in the US and UK simultaneously.

She is the sweetest REASON to smile ... a REASON to celebrate ... a REASON to be privileged ... a REASON to be lucky ... a REASON to discover the REAL me ... a REASON to say "thank you God!" Happy birthday sweetie!

Dekha tujhe to yeh jana,

Hota hain kya muskurana.

Woh jo teri har baat pe,

Haaton ka yun girna uthna.

Na koi tu pari hain, na koi tu afsana

Phir bhi na jaane kyun lagta hain

Koi nahi tujhse pyaara,

Koi nahi tujhse pyaara

Koi nahi tujhse pyaara

Koi nahi tujhse pyaara

Would you hold my hand

If I saw you in heaven

Would you help me stand

If I saw you in heaven.

~ Tears In Heaven, Eric Clapton

When Bhishma was on the verge of dying, lying on the shafts of Arjuna's arrows, looking to his great great grandfather, Arjun couldn't stop crying,. Then lord Krishna told him: 'Hey nath, come on, you are a jyani. Jyani doesn't cry because a jyani knows the truth of death and life. A jyani knows that death is inevitable to everyone. Stop crying. Accept the truth'

Now the question is, doesn't knowing the truth and then swallowing the truth take time?

Isn't tough when someone who always has the unconditional cares n prayers for you, left you without giving you an opportunity to say thank you?

Isn't tough when you find that you have lost a part of your childhood memory?

Isn't tough when someone's absent erase a part of your existence?

Isn't tough when one of sweetest reasons to smile stop kissing you smile?

Isn't tough when you lose a place where you can crawl back to hide, anytime you want?

Isn't tough?

I miss you dida, I couldn't fulfill your last wish you have asked to me. I'm sorry!

People say, "Love is like war; easy to begin but hard to end."

I say it in this way: "Love is a journey; starting at forever, and ending at never."

That's why the people who are in love walked TOGETHER down the path that leads they know not where. It matters not, for them, TOGETHER, will abide whatever fate has planned for them ... forever! Because he who has never experienced hurt, cannot experience true love. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more.

Though sometimes love is denied, sometimes lost, sometimes unrecognized, but in the end, always found with no regrets, forever valued and kept treasured. Because to love and win is the best thing but to love and lose is the next best. True love is giving all you have to someone you know you're going to lose.







Copyright ?? 2008 Roy ~ All Rights Reserved.

Hey, can you say, what do the following superstars have in common?

I have seen people to whom "love" is just a simple relationship which grows and dies so fast that sun even can't change its direction. But I have also seen people to whom "love" is just not a relationship; to them it's DEVOTION.

And I'm so privileged that in my life, I have a friend to whom love is a journey; starting at forever and ending at never ... to her love is DEVOTION. Though her MAN saddled her into a painful memory, still her love is devoted only to HIM ... only to HIM.

She was such kinda friend to whom I never need to wear someone else's mask to be proud for ... I never need to think what should I'm gonna speak before I open my mouth and when I use to finish my non-sense talking I never need to worry, "Oh my God, what I have said to her!"

So, it was my share of responsibilty to let her know, "If losing is right, it happens. Nothing good gets away.  And giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go."

Just recently, we succeed to make her agreed to get married. So after the engagement and spending some quality time with her fianc??, one day, she wrote me:

Roy, you are right ' relationships are like glasses, sometimes it's better to leave our heart broken than to hurt putting it back together. Really, we waste time looking for the perfect lover instead creating the perfect love. Thank you!

Friendship is Love, without his wings.

~ L'Amiti?? est l'Amour sans Ailes, Lord Byron

Literally, a friend is a lover. Yes!

The Latin origin of the word friend is 'am??cus' and 'am??cus' came from 'am??.' In Latin it stands for "I love.' Even, 'philos,' the Greek meaning of the word friend is extracted from the word, 'phile??.' Ana again it stands for "I love."

If you knock the door of Middle English, you have to travel a thousand year backward to see the verb related to friend. The old English word 'fr??ond' was the source for today's "friend." Interestingly, it was simply the present participle of the verb fr??on, "to love."

This post is written by the guest author Sneha Sanyal.

When you decide

That your life is a prize

Renew and revive

It's allright honey

It's allright.

~ Hummer, Smashing Pumpkin

Being through the process of getting divorce isn't easy. Practically, a divorce is like an amputation: we survive it, but there is less of us. It's tough to believe ' tough to accept and tough to act on.

And that is time when we all need support. But I came to know that the best support we get from the end of our own hands.

The inevitable sadness of a divorce lingers with the thoughts in mind:

* I wish I could get over the pain of this divorce.

* He is so happy, why can't I be.

* I'm stuck here with no hope of ever finding another good person to be with.

* He cheated on me.

* The pain is so bad, no one can understand my pain, I can never be happy again, I will carry this pain with me forever.

* Why did he do this to me?

But there was another side of the story'I was thriving to revive'thinking, wasn't there anything that can catapult me towards a new life? Then a new year has given me these hope:

* I am so thankful for my children.
* Although my friends don't know exactly what I am going though, I am so lucky that they are here for me.
* Look at my pet, I am so lucky to have a buddy!
* How lucky can one be to have control over their life and the freedom to may decisions'I am so thankful for that!

How did I know these? Well, I really don't. This is MY experience. I have seen the change I have gone though in adopting it for myself. However, it's not easy to adopt after my divorce.

Do I miss him? No! But I miss who I thought he was. Most important, it's much better to be sad for his absence than his presence.

Find yourself being thankful for the people in your life and the future ahead of you. REMEMBER, WHEN YOU FINALLY REALIZE YOUR LIFE IS A PRIZE'YOU WONT HIDE, YOU'ILL THRIVE!

Sneha Sanyal is a media professional who in the first 45+ years of her life, never been alone. Being with her two young children, she believes that the only way of becoming wise is being happy.